And the feeling of 'gear disparity' and the "other" side rolling over you is just as pervasive here on Destruction. There are plenty of hours during the morning and afternoon when Q and I log in that the SCs are so lopsided (she got 3 in a row today that were 3-4 dest to 12+ order) there isn't even time to spawn camp it's over so fast. I got one-shot 3 seperate times today on the lake by a SM, and the Mod we reported to said [paraphrase],"...they know they're not supposed to do that. We've warned them..." and the ability still persists, only you're all to be on your best behavior while rollling over us
When I logged back in after a loooooooooonnnnggg break, there were enough guildies who were online AND interested (it seems farming bloody gear in IC is still path of least resistance) that we were able to start w/2 grps of 4, and began taking on the lake mobs AND order; they put up one hell of a fight for over an hour... which is when we began to see Order numbers dwindle... and our numbers rise inversely with characters names suspiciously similar to a lot of the Order no longer on the battlefield.
90 minutes into it I got a Str cloak for my Mara (the FIRST cloak I've ever "earned" as I'm fortunate to be in a tight-knit, family-type guild where most of us give to those in need what we cannot use when it drops; in turn, those of us w/gifts like that tend to do the same for other trusted mates who need the gear, or want it for lowbies) and got on a sub-par DoK to aid those that helped me get that sweet drop. If not for my guild and the awesome folks in it, my mara wouldn't have anywhere close to type/amount of uncommon gear, and the lady weap (which I've been waiting to use since lvl 11 was hinted at a few weeks ago) that was gifted to me by another selfless guildie who spent multiple hours farming JUST to help gear guildies.
I've given away the decayed chalice, a decayed shield, a BQ SH helm, two staff of the decayed, a sorc lady staff, and literally TONS of uncommon gear, both Gale-Runner's and Bloody (even some Pillager's). I've even passed on Mara gear feeling a bit unworthy of the gifts. But that does two things: insults the giver, and decries the time many invest just to gear their mates. In MMO's there probably isn't a more selfless act.
Then I get on again tonight, bent on helping my mates get cloaks. Order's out in mass numbers...AGAIN... AMs, Engis, BWs IBs, SW, WHs... easily 3 times our numbers. We got slaughtered, relegated to farming Hate while hiding behind a rock...
Offered groups to many, only 2 of which came, both also maras. Q was only healer on field of mdps. Acid bomb + focus on her meant we only killed Hate when Order was on Fear or the pony. And as I write this, I'm looking at Q's screen and there are few Order left, the suspiciously alike Destro names, and more Dest seem to be piling in. All of a sudden there's 3 tanks, 4 heals, only few mdps and rdps. Order's lower pop keeps coming back, but their numbers are fewer and fewer.
The only disparity seems to be in most of us players expecting people who choose to play both sides will do 'the right thing' for 'our' side (those of us who choose to only play Destruction or only play Order), but that's not what they're there for. Path of least resistance is what most MMO'ers choose. When the tide even appears to be turning, they bail for the most organized and populated side. Those who switch to the underdog are few and far between, but more vocal on forums, which tends to skew the view, if you will.
The Domino train for gear sucks. Find folks dedicated to playing only one side. Or, play only one side yourself, if you don't already, and guild w/like-minded folks. Give freely to those who you know only play your side. Guild w/those folks.
BTW, this answer used to piss me off when I'd rant about gear and other similar imbalance issues. I've humbly been found in error through the relationships I've built, and am building with other like-minded people in LoL. There are very few players in any game I've ever played that are as helpful and providing as Legacy of Legends. Joker may be disliked by many for many personal reasons, but he, and leaders like him, foster an atmosphere of mutual trust. There's guilds like that on Order. Ask around.
Good luck, and Good Hunting
