Hey guess what! The problem is that the new server is blocking any Windows XP machine from connecting. I put the game on a portable USB drive and tried running it on a Windows 8 desktop and and a Windows 7 laptop, with both successfully having all green for the connection status. Unfortunately, this does nothing to help my situation as I do not have full time access to the win8 desktop and playing on the laptop would be insanely annoying after about 15 minutes. I also don't have the funds to spare right now for a newer system and upgrading the OS on this old beast is problematic. Might look into running linux as a dual boot, but I haven't messed with it in years and have never gamed on it.
Thank you to everyone who tried to help out in this thread, even tho it was ultimately unsuccessful - it goes to show what a great community this is.
Ah well, hopefully someone on the dev team will see this and possibly rectify the situation. Until then, happy hunting everyone!