I would say order runs more often, but I think we both are biased there, as we just remember those ocasions more as the ones ore advesaries ran. And dont get me wrong, I dont mind loosing, we held our ground that day. That is not the point. The point is, that we could have won if people in my wb and other would have listened. The leaders of the other two wb listened to my input and tried to get their peeps to do what I said but couldnt, so its not really an issue of poor equipment, if we do the drills perfect and die because destro is just stronger, I am the last to complain. But the fact was the people, even as there were just about merely 3 wb didnt respond or responded very slow. That shouldnt happen. Thats the whole point i am trying to get across since 4 or 5 posts.
Like I said just boot the ones that don't listen. When things are getting serious as in keep attacks, etc I say in warband chat multiple times that you will get booted for not listening. Once you start booting people aggressively, others either get in line or will quit pvping because they can't get into warbands.
I am more lenient on when it's just a flag war going on or when things are not as important.
If your serious about being a WB leader often then people will begin to recognize you for it and know what to expect. Most of our WB leaders including me are pretty strict on this.
1. I boot immediately anyone that queues for SCs while in warband, I hate seeing the chat spammed with "you attempted to queue for X". They clearly aren't very interested anyway.
2. I boot anyone immediately who I see that is in a SC while also in the WB. They aren't there and we usually have lots of people willing to take their spot.
3. Anyone I see sitting in the warcamp(or way outside the WB) I either PM directly or I put out a message in WB chat that you will be booted from the WB in 30 sec to 1 min if your still "distant" from the warband. This is trickier due to map bugs, which is why there is the time delay. If they can't say something in chat or respond, they aren't reading chat anyway and not useful.
4. I usually boot anyone that is in another city immediately if things are important like the middle of a keep defense/attack. If we just finished locking a zone or something, there is clearly some room for going to get new gear etc.
If you can get 2 or 3 WB operating in that fashion, then you just need to tackle the final and most difficult part... which warband leader calls the shots? Who is the leader of the leaders?