Going to try my hand at PvE as an ironbreaker (40/59) and i was wondering if i could get some advice, considering the information about the dungeons itself is already rather scarce i rather not burden my group extra (once i finally find one that is newb friendly)
Right now my gear is (these stats are without tactics on purpose)


Right now using:
Vanq Helm, belt, shoulders, chest
Anni gloves and boots (Helm, chest and shoulders in bag)
Genesis fragment, cloak and aspect (remanent in bags)
From winds set Obdurate seal and word breaker band
Subjugator 1h Axe with a blue shield (2h sub hammer in bags)
Last i tried one i also struggled with aggro managnement although that might be done to gear, using grudging blow on single target but wondering if it's not more effective to AoE everything?
As for tactics, i guess menace is a must have (increase hate) and AI for the extra armour?
As for builds just using the "standard" up to shield mastery in stone and up to told ya so in brotherhood.
Any advice so i can start puzzling together a setup would be appreciated, thanks in advance!